29 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’There is no commandment greater than these.” Mark 12
The biggest takeaway of going through this book has been that discipling is a guided process. You don't pick someone and throw them into the river and hope they know how to swim. You take your time, you work with them slowly, and you teach them differently at each point in the process.
Look at how Jesus responds to any number of people he encounters in the gospel books. It can almost seem like he isn't the same person in each encounter. Take a closer look at each person, and you'll start to see that each person is at a different stage of their spiritual journey. Jesus tailored his response to each of them based on that information. Now, Jesus could see into each of their hearts to know where they were in their journey, but we don't have that ability. While we don't have x-ray vision into their heart, there are clues all over to help you to see that information.
People love to share about themselves, but most people get funny when you bring up God and religion, especially if they don't know you that well. You can't come right out and ask where they are in their walk with God. Look for the signs, and change your own responses accordingly. You're not changing the message, you're only altering the delivery, just as Jesus did.
For those that are spiritually dead or infants, we are to share the gospel and what God has done in our lives.
For the spiritual children, we are to get them connected to the body of Christ. Find a small group for them. Find other believers in the same stage of life as them, such as college students, new parents, or retired.
For the spiritual young adults, we are to train them for ministry. Find ways for them to lead, whether it's leading one person or a group.
Finally, for the spiritual parents, they have begun leading others, and we are to release them to become further disciple makers. At this point, they can take someone else through the same process, and continue the ministry.
Even if people aren't wearing signs around their neck to identify what stage they're in, you probably can think of someone in each of these stages. Where do you fall? Can you think of which stage other people around you are in?