After keeping James and Sarah over spring
break last year, we were even more eager to expedite the process of having them
placed in our home. After our additional rounds of background checks and
interviews cleared, the adoption agency worked with us to get our adoption
application filed with the State. We were told that could take some time for
the State to approve us as the adoptive family, but once they did approve, the
kids would need to transfer homes immediately and then there would still be a 6
month trial period.
Not knowing when we would be approved, the
adoption agency asked the current foster family if they would agree to transfer
the foster placement ahead of time so that we could all plan for a set day. Surprisingly
they agreed, and June 18th was set as the official transfer day (the
day before Father’s Day). To help with the transition, we gradually increased
our length of respite care for the 6 weeks leading up to June 18th. After each extra-long weekend with the kids,
it got harder and harder to say goodbye and return them to their current foster
family.
As we tried to patiently wait for June 18th,
God gave us opportunities to use our last few weeks without permanent children
to spend time with extended family out of state. We visited my 92 year old grandfather
in Texas, Joe’s family in Ohio, and I visited my sister and her husband and new
baby in Virginia. (It ended up being my last visit with my grandfather, as he
passed in July.)
Similarly, as we wait for our day of transfer
to Heaven, God has things for us to do. We aren’t to get impatient or
frustrated or give up and sit around doing nothing while we wait.
John
14:1-4, 12, 15 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. 2 My
Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that
I am going there to prepare a place for you?3 And if
I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and
take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. 4 You
know the way to the place where I am going.” … 12 Very truly I tell you,
whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they
will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father…15 “If you love me, keep my commands.
Are you anxiously anticipating Heaven?
Joining Jesus in Heaven will be the most exciting day ever! As we wait, how are
you and I wisely using our time here on earth in preparation for that day?
Alice