It's Not About You

Your kingdom come.
Your will be done
On earth as it is in heaven.  Matthew 6:10 (NKJV)

There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.  John 15:13

“Abba, Father,” he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”  Mark 14:36

(This is Pt 4 of 8 – Turning the Tide – Representing God to a World that Misrepresents Him)

It is hard to believe that I have written devotions for over a decade now.  The one thing that I have realized is it never mattered whether I felt like it was a good devotion or not because writing them is never about me.  Sure, they are inspired by things I have seen and my own life experiences.  However, my writing is not to advance my cause.  It’s to show what God has taught me and its relevance to society today, and more importantly, that God uses me through my words to inspire others toward serving Him better.  One of the greatest accusations against us as Christians is that while we talk about a God we serve, we do not give of ourselves to either Him or others.  We focus on frankly other Christians or worse, ourselves.  In a world that is driven by self (you deserve this, ‘selfies,’ It’s all about me), how can we show a better life focused on serving God above all other things?

As Christians we should be selfless examples by removing ourselves from the equation and placing God before us.  Whether it is about the greater love of laying down your life for your friend or the Lord’s Prayer focusing on God’s Kingdom, Jesus is a shining example of selflessness.  However, nothing exemplifies more and drives how selfless Jesus was than Him dying on the cross for our sins.  Prior to it, He went to God as listed in today’s last verse (also in Matthew 26:39 and Luke 22:42), and note that He chose not to ask for His wishes or wants prior to His crucifixion.  Instead, He focused on God’s first.  My pastor this past Sunday noted a quote from Howard Hendricks saying, “Lord, here I am.  I want to be Your suit of clothes today.  I want you to take me and use me.  Lord, just walk around in me today.”  We should always start any action with a simple question, “Is this what God would want?”  When speaking, we should ask God to use us so that our words become His words.  These represent what selflessness sounds like.

God wants to use us in extraordinary ways.  Football coach Glenn ‘Bo’ Schembechler in one of his most famous speeches outlined how fulfilling a life focused on something greater than yourself (i.e. the team) is.  He said, “No man is more important than the team.  No coach is more important than the team.  The team.  The team.  The team!”  As Christians, we too are at our best when we first realize that nothing we say and no action we do is about us.  How can you remove your motives and replace them with God’s?  How can you best prepare yourself to be used by God?  My prayer is that we embraces selflessness remembering in the words of Rick Warren, “It’s not about you.”  Amen.