Monday, December 3, 2018

Dating Profile


Romans 12:1-2

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

If you had to create a dating profile for your Christian walk, what would it say about you?  Would you have a very generic profile with the best picture that you could possibly find or would it really tell who you are and have an every day picture?  Would it conform to the world and how they look at dating or would it be able to be tested and approved for what God’s will is?

Ten years ago today I went on a first date with a man who almost didn’t get a date with me, because his online dating profile was very generic.  I thought he was no different than the rest of the guys out there, looking for just one thing, which was not going to get him a date with me.  His initial note to me was simple and stated that he was interested in me.  I wrote him back explaining that based off his profile, I saw no reason that I would be interested in him.  This fueled him to then reply with a book about how much we had in common.  How based off my profile, he knew we would be a good match as Christ was the center of both of our lives and that we were not of the world as many people are. 

Fast forward ten years later, I am now married to that amazing man. 

It could have all been very different however if my profile would have been generic and conforming with the world’s way of thinking. 

Thinking again about what our profile would be like if we had to create a dating profile for our Christian walk, how many people would swipe past you vs how many would stop and contact you as they were interested in who you said you were?  Would that relationship stand the test of time because you stated who you really are or would it fade as the person got to really know you?   

1 comment:

  1. Thanks, Jessica, that's a great way to put these words in a meaningful modern context. Have a great day!

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