People can sure be fickle. One minute they can be singing your praises and the next minute tearing you to shreds. Opinions and beliefs can change quickly, too, based on what people see, hear, feel, want to believe, etc.
I’m not immune to this, either. In fact, I thought Joe (my husband) was arrogant and rude when I first met him. He did interrupt a conversation I was having with another guy, which may have skewed my opinion. 😊
Paul
experienced this fickleness of people. Once he was safely on land after the
shipwreck, the islanders made drastic judgement calls about him!
Acts 28:1-6 Once safely on shore, we found out that the island was called Malta. 2 The islanders showed us unusual kindness. They built a fire and welcomed us all because it was raining and cold. 3 Paul gathered a pile of brushwood and, as he put it on the fire, a viper, driven out by the heat, fastened itself on his hand. 4 When the islanders saw the snake hanging from his hand, they said to each other, “This man must be a murderer; for though he escaped from the sea, the goddess Justice has not allowed him to live.” 5 But Paul shook the snake off into the fire and suffered no ill effects. 6 The people expected him to swell up or suddenly fall dead; but after waiting a long time and seeing nothing unusual happen to him, they changed their minds and said he was a god.
When was the last time you and I made a quick and rash judgment call that we later realized was incorrect?
Many of us here at Thomson Reuters have been through the training on assuming positive intent. It is sometimes hard to do, especially when our emotions are already riled. However, doesn’t it benefit us and the other person to calm down, assume the best, listen, gather additional details, and then react and respond?
With whom do you and I need to especially practice this?
Alice
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