I look up to the mountains—
does my help come from there?
My help comes from the Lord,
who made heaven and earth!
He will not let you stumble;
the one who watches over you will not slumber.
Indeed, he who watches over Israel
never slumbers or sleeps.
The Lord himself watches over you!
The Lord stands beside you as your protective
shade.
The sun will not harm you by day,
nor the moon at night.
The Lord keeps you from all harm
and watches over your life.
The Lord keeps watch over you as you come and go,
both now and forever.
Psalm 121
Good people always put more into you than they expect
back. I’m not saying to ask to borrow
$20 from them with the expectation to not pay it back. In fact, I’d argue perhaps you might pay it
back with interest much like the parable of talents (see Matthew 25:14-30). However, these individuals see more in you
than at times you see in yourself. My
wife saw something in me when I was ready to give up on school, and she pushed me
through when I had little strength. I
liken it to the analogy of a bank. She
invested me believing I could be someone special. It was more about me than her, and for that,
I am forever grateful to her.
Most people invest in others with the expectation of a return. However, it is not like one expects a direct payback. Instead, they expect the return on investment
to be the joy of seeing you fulfilling your potential. Those are the people you want to not only surround
yourself with but also be like.
Why? Because like Jesus, they
give freely and unconditionally. Not
with strings attached or expectation. Furthermore,
what if you have people in your life fail to support your vision and dreams and
yet are in constant need of yours? As a pastor
asked, “Why are you expecting a return from friend who has insufficient
funds?”
We must be willing to put into our relationships the love
that God puts into us. Those who need someone
in their corner to believe in them must trust in God to provide for them. My initial thought about my wife is I might
be too reliant on her and how much she invested in me. That I might fall into a trap that she became
‘God’ to me. However, the more accurate
picture is as David pointed out in the 121st Psalm God is watching
over me so much so that He put her in my life even when I did not know I would need
her. Note the difference is I am not
reliant on Loretta for strength. I am
reliant on God for strength for when I am weak, He in His infinite wisdom put
someone in my life to build me up. God
worked through her to help me, and she is not God. She is a constant reminder of just how
amazing God is!
Additionally, as followers of Christ we are committed to be people who invest in others. We can be counted on to give of ourselves toward others as Christ gave to us. If we look to our relationships based on what we can get, we just are doing relationships wrong. This is not to say we may need to end a relationship (see 'Toxic Relationships'). But a healthy relationship with Christ means we give all to Him not because of the price He paid on the cross. We do so simply because we love Him so much! In the Book of James, it says, “So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless.” (James 2:17) Our love for God produces those good deeds that we ‘invest’ in others, which in turn produces good deeds from them they too will invest in others. In the bank analogy, this is like the Law of Compound Interest, but it grows God’s Kingdom. Not our personal account.
We serve a God of abundance. He gives us love, grace, and protection. If we are to truly grow in our faith, we must give those very things to others for they are gifts to be shared from God. It is true that we must invest wisely in giving those things, but if we invest, we gain far more than lose. Let us remember that God invests in us, and then, give freely and wisely to others with the hope they too will invest like we invested in them. Who invested into you mentally and spiritually that you can give thanks to today? How can you focus on being more reliant on God for your strength? Who will you invest those gifts God gave you in? My prayer is that we are continually investing in the Bank of Jesus Christ. Amen.
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