Thursday Devotional - All-Knowing God and His Timing (9/19/24)

"Stupid!" "Idiot!" That is what some of the teen girls were calling the other younger girls at the new equestrian center my daughter, Sarah, tried out last weekend. She loved her time with the horses, but she was quite bothered by the interactions of the teen helpers.

Job’s friends weren’t any nicer! They continued to crush and attack him with words (Job 19:2-3). Job aptly called them “miserable comforters” (Job 16:2). He continued to converse back and forth with them, only to anger each other even more. Job ended by stating in chapter 31 that he can’t think of any horrible secret sin that he committed. To that, the three friends stopped talking because “they had found no way to refute Job, and yet had condemned him” (Job 32:3b). However, a fourth younger man opened his mouth and gave a LONG discourse admonishing Job and attempting to speak for God (Job chapters 32-37).   

Enter God! I can only imagine the fearful trembling of Job and his friends!!!

Job 38:1-5 Then the Lord spoke to Job out of the storm. He said:

² “Who is this that obscures my plans
    with words without knowledge?
³ Brace yourself like a man;
    I will question you,
    and you shall answer me.

⁴ “Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundation?
    Tell me, if you understand.
⁵ Who marked off its dimensions? Surely you know!
    Who stretched a measuring line across it?
⁶ On what were its footings set,
    or who laid its cornerstone—
⁷ while the morning stars sang together
    and all the angels shouted for joy?

Job had pleaded to speak with God and God finally appeared! God’s timing is always perfect for His purposes and doesn’t always fit into our desired timetable. If God had come right away when Job first pleaded, then we would not have his example of continued trust in God, even when everyone and everything around Job was against him.

With what do you and I need to trust God’s timing?

Thursday Devotional - All-Knowing God and Honorable Job (7/25/24)

Acting with complete integrity and honor is godly and of high value. Joe and I pray regularly for help to instill excellent character in our children. In fact, this week we reminded them that their relationship with God was far more important than doing well in all of this week’s swim and dive competitions.

Speaking of integrity and honor, Job had exceptional character. Yet, his friends quickly forgot. After Eliphaz’s ignorant speech in chapters 4-5, Job responded with a serious defense.

Job 6:14-15a, 21-24, 28-30

“Anyone who withholds kindness from a friend
    forsakes the fear of the Almighty.
¹⁵ But my brothers are as undependable as intermittent streams,
    
²¹ Now you too have proved to be of no help;
    you see something dreadful and are afraid.
²² Have I ever said, ‘Give something on my behalf,
    pay a ransom for me from your wealth,
²³ deliver me from the hand of the enemy,
    rescue me from the clutches of the ruthless’?

²⁴ “Teach me, and I will be quiet;
    show me where I have been wrong.
²⁸ “But now be so kind as to look at me.
    Would I lie to your face?
²⁹ Relent, do not be unjust;
    reconsider, for my integrity is at stake.
³⁰ Is there any wickedness on my lips?
    Can my mouth not discern malice?

Job called his friends undependable and unhelpful! Yes!!! Job had never taken advantage of them, lied or been unjust. In fact, from this passage, it seems he never even asked them for help. Yet, they didn’t defend his integrity and questioned his character.

It’s devastating when those closest to a person question upright character. Humans are not all-knowing. Only God sees and knows everything. He knew all about Job and knows all about you and me. Let’s seek honorable character in God’s eyes, no matter what others perceive.

Friday Devotional - All-Knowing God Brings Sympathetic Friends (6/28/24)

Have you ever been in so much pain that you couldn’t talk and couldn’t handle other people talking to you? I have been there a few times, but not for days on end, like Job!  

Job 2:11-13  ¹¹ When Job’s three friends, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite and Zophar the Naamathite, heard about all the troubles that had come upon him, they set out from their homes and met together by agreement to go and sympathize with him and comfort him. ¹² When they saw him from a distance, they could hardly recognize him; they began to weep aloud, and they tore their robes and sprinkled dust on their heads. ¹³ Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and seven nights. No one said a word to him, because they saw how great his suffering was.

I know the three friends didn’t stay sympathetic and didn’t remain an encouragement, but they started out well. They left their comforts to sit next to and watch Job’s misery. They didn’t just come and pay respects for 7 minutes but sat silently for 7 days and nights!

What kind of friend are you and I? Are we that selfless and sacrificial? Do we tell our friend we will pray for them and then move on with our day? I was convicted by the initial compassion of Job’s friends.

Proverbs 17:17   A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.

Let’s be a true friend to share in the joy and sorrow of others.

How We're Living

For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live.

For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.  Romans 8:13-16

(This is Pt 2 of 8 – Turning the Tide – Representing God to a World that Misrepresents Him)

Why do they call the Bible the ‘Living’ word of God?  Many of us know that while the actual Bible printed is not living, the words come to life through our study and application of it.  Through us, the Bible comes ‘alive.’  It's what   Yet, people will still doubt the validity of it and how present it is for the very reason it is living; us.  Many of us who have become newly born again Christians are surrounded by people that will mock and criticize us for our choice.  Opinions will range from the ‘he will turn back to his old self by next week’ to the ‘how could God see anything in her’ commentary.  What if this world does not believe that you have changed?  What if their goal is to pull you from the path that God has set forth before you?

The answer to this problem is to simply walk with God one day at a time.  Yes, there are many who have made a dramatic change where they have left a life filled with sin and become a passionate and fierce defender of the faith.  But if you were like me, then there were some things that you jumped right on and others that you failed at miserably.  It is those very failures where the world will remind you of the old person you were.  However, you are not that person!  God wants us to acknowledge the person we are becoming as born again through Christ.  Yes, we will fail at times, and often it will occur over the same sinful behavior numerous times.  But anything worthwhile is never easy, right?  It requires strength and determination, but most of all we need a helping hand; the hand of Jesus Christ.  There is a reason Paul said to the Philippians that indeed he could do everything through Christ (Philippians 4:13).  Just as today’s verses reaffirm, if we are led by the Spirit of God, we are indeed His children; inseparable and beyond any doubt.  Through Jesus Christ and with a sprinkle of patience, we are indeed able to show the world how He alone is the single greatest agent for true positive and transformative change. 

God knows us.  He knows our thoughts, our spirits, and our hearts.  There is no need to mind what the world says.  Trust in God and His word for if you follow Him, the whispers of the person you were will go away, and the naysayers will soon gravitate to the person God is making you.  How can you trust in God to help you be the person He wants you to be?  How can you focus less on your past sins and more on God’s future for your life?  My prayer is that we today and beyond to show the world how we are 'living.’  Amen.

You Are Enough

“Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”

Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’  This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Matthew 22:26-40

There was a time in my life where I did not feel worthy of God’s love.  “I am not good enough,” I would tell myself.  As such, I felt unworthy of the love I had been given from others as well.  Then when I was born again, it felt like a flood of Godly love overwhelmed me.  It was so abundant that I had to share.  I wanted to share.  Over ten years later, that feeling has never left me.  The reason has become obvious to me lately.  You can love others as much as you have love for yourself.  This is not a self-absorbed type love.  This is a love that God has for you, and through it, you realize how valued you are to Him.  This sense of self-worth gives you a greater purpose.  A greater sense of how beautiful you are from the inside out.

Our love is as abundant as the love we have for God.  Jesus’ lesson on the greatest commandment is one of my favorites.  Most people think of it as the importance of having love for God and others.  While that is fundamentally true, it is a narrow view.  A God-centered perspective will look at love not just of others.  It begins with self.  It is no surprise that most destructive and unhealthy relationships start with a lack of love for self.  Guilt and shame through sin are instruments of the Devil that restrict one’s love for self.  But God’s grace is so transformative that it frees us to be better stewards to others because it allows for us to first forgive ourselves!  It is then that we see ourselves as God sees us; a beautiful creation that was made for His purpose.

You are a child of God.  You are beautiful, wonderfully made, and worthy.  How could you truly love God or your neighbor without realizing the incredible person that God made you?  We are driven by the world to believe that unless we buy, physically change, or become someone else, we are worthless.  But God says, “I will provide all you need.  I made you just the way you are, and I love you as is.”  You may tell yourself that you are not the person you want to be, but God wants you to know you are a special work in progress.  While you push to grow in your relationship with Christ, remember you are worthy of God’s love.  My brothers and sisters in Christ, you are quite simply enough.  Amen.

Work In Progress

Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming.  Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.  From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.  Ephesians 4:14-16

My journey of faith started right here doing devotions over ten years ago.  I have grown so much in the decade that has passed since, and yet, I feel like I am still a work in progress.  My growth moves me to be better and closer each day to the God who showed me grace and to the people who despite my flaws have shown me love that only God supersedes.  I write devotions with the hope of helping others find purpose for what God has in store for them for each day that we focus on Christ is a step of growth in the right direction.

Spiritual growth is a continual process that is aided by knowledge in His word and use of one’s gifts. One area that I have grown immensely in is sharing my faith.  With greater knowledge in the truth of His word and understanding the gifts God has given me, I have realized that I am far better at discussing faith with someone I have first gotten to know.  If I try a different approach, it does not come across as authentic or worded differently, with Godly intent.  We all grow in different ways.  Some as my pastor said the other day are best diving in to learn how to swim.  Others learn best from someone knowledgeable or applying life experiences.  Our goal is to be knowledgeable in what God expects from us so that we operate continually with ‘Godly intent.’

Growth is not meant to be easy for as Jesus said, “But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.” (Matthew 7:14)  In trying to grow, we will fall sometimes, but the greatest growth often comes from our failures.  One of the last things my father told me was, “Keep your hands on the plow.”  It meant keep working at it.  Don’t give up.  Keep pushing. This is how we both grow and become the mature body of Christ.  How can you grow your spiritual gifts?  What greater knowledge can you obtain to further your spiritual growth?  My prayer is that we realize that we are continually a work in progress.  Amen.

Trust Issues

I will love You, O Lord, my strength.
The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer;
My God, my strength, in whom I will trust;
My shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
I will call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised;
So shall I be saved from my enemies.  Psalm 18:1-3

Do you ever fear of a relationship because you have trouble trusting them?   It might be something that has happened to us in our past holding you back, and other times, it may be a sense you have about them.  I remember when a close relative disappointed me and lost my complete trust.  The incident became a memory that would shelter me from others.  No one could be trusted.  However through God’s love, I was able to come back and find the courage to trust again.  That would change my relationships, both old and new. When I stopped limiting myself to avoid being hurt and extended the same level of trust that I had placed in God, future disappointments did not change me because I knew God had my back, and my relationships became more healthy because they were both strong  and authentic.

Trusting in God will unlock endless possibilities for your relationships with others.   There are numerous reasons why we lack trust.  We don’t trust others because we worry of them being worthy of it.  We don’t trust a situation because it has always failed previously, and we don’t even trust ourselves because we have either never done it before or have told ourselves it cannot be done.  However, we serve an awesome and mighty God for which there are absolutely NO boundaries.  If we pray earnestly for His guidance and truly trust Him, He will give us wisdom to know who to trust, His word as guidance to any situation, and His strength to overcome our own fears and doubts.

Surety in God gives us the confidence to move forward in any situation.  As today’s verses remind us, He is a rock, fortress, our strength, shield and salvation that is indeed worthy to be praised.  When the world may seem uncertain around you, trust in God that He would never steer you wrong, and then extend that very trust to others knowing He will always be there for you.  How much do you truly trust God?  Where can God restore your trust in others?  My prayer is that we remember God’s love and grace when dealing with our own trust issues.  Amen.

This Changed Everything

When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”

So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger.  When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them.  Luke 2:15:18

My wife and I have known each other for over thirty-one years.  It is crazy to think of the first day that I met her.  She described me as a spoiled kid.  I think she might have been right  J  I thought about our first date, which was thirty-one years ago yesterday, and how much fun we had.  I knew she was different from the other women I had dated, but I had little experience then.  There was no way that I could know then the blessing she would become, but with the context of those thirty plus years, I have a true appreciation for that moment because that changed everything in my life.

Tomorrow, we celebrate the day that really changed everything; the birth of our savior Jesus Christ.  We have heard lots of stories about the importance and stories of Christmas, Our relationship with God, forgiveness of our sins, the gift of eternal life, a love for something greater than ourselves, and an infinite number of blessings from above all come from one source, and none of it would be possible without Jesus Christ.  Few back then could appreciate what the His birth would mean, but over two thousand years later, we can.  Why?  It is because much like the shepherds in today’s verses, we have both the context of history to understand its significance and our own personal moment to know what it meant for our lives.

Yes, Christ Jesus is the reason for the season.  We are assured a place on Mount Zion where He will reign forever.  So many things we have been blessed with, and it all started one day.  Tomorrow, we celebrate His birthday.  Isn’t that just the coolest thing?  What will you give thanks for to Christ?  How can you share the greatest gift of all to those you know?  My prayer is that we appreciate this Christmas knowing on that day, it changed everything.  Amen. 

Godly Intention

But the Lord said to Ananias, “Go! This man is my chosen instrument to proclaim my name to the Gentiles and their kings and to the people of Israel. I will show him how much he must suffer for my name.”
 
Then Ananias went to the house and entered it. Placing his hands on Saul, he said, “Brother Saul, the Lord—Jesus, who appeared to you on the road as you were coming here—has sent me so that you may see again and be filled with the Holy Spirit.” Immediately, something like scales fell from Saul’s eyes, and he could see again. He got up and was baptized, and after taking some food, he regained his strength.  Acts 9:15-19

We all have a clear understanding of the saying ‘cause and effect.’  In science, it is about the laws of physics (Newton’s Law of motion), but in life, many refer to it as karma.  While there are fundamentally clear explanation on the physics side (a ball being hit by a bat in baseball, or one person pushing another who is standing still), I get amused when I hear similar explanations on an intangible level (ex. you get out of the world what you put in).  I have always believed that things happen for a reason that God always intends for.  The typical outcome for a teen dad such as me is often a long and difficult path. However, the birth of my daughter (cause) became the transformative moment that helped become the foundation for my faith (effect).  I realized then there truly was a God, and that He is always watching over me.

God always acts with long term intention, and our goal is to both understand and act on it.  Today’s verses focus on a disciple named Ananias.  While we are not sure of all of the circumstances surrounding Ananias’ life, we know that he was called on by God in this very important part of spreading the gospel.  He is directly instructed by God to confirm to Saul that indeed it was Jesus who spoke to him.  The ‘cause’ of this meeting set forth the ‘effect’ of Saul being baptized, changing his name to Paul, his spreading of the gospel to all nations, and writing a vast majority of the New Testament.  That’s not karma.  That is the power of Godly intention.

Listening to God’s intention changes others’ lives.  We may never know how our story may change the fortune of another, but if we listen to God like Ananias, we may be the start of a God inspired movement.  After all, very few people ever heard of Mordecai Ham, but one person converted over to Christ because of him.  That person was Billy Graham.  Coincidence? Karma?  I think not!  Do you understand God’s intention for your life?  Are you spiritually aware of God’s movement in your own actions?  My prayer is that we have clarity on Christ’s intentions in our daily activity.  Amen.

Fighting With God (It's Not What You Think)

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.  Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.  For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.  Ephesians 6:10-12

The other day, a couple colleagues of mine were telling me their disappointing Christian experiences.  One pointed out that there were relatives who would blast non-believers for their choice and then act in ways that were as sinful as anyone else.  Another who was distant from the faith because of its treatment toward gays asked how a faith could speak of love and yet be so dismissive of the LGBT community?  I wrote about being a Road Warriors for Christ a few weeks ago.  It was clear that this was a road game in a hostile environment.  Yet somehow, God was with me in that discussion because I answered in a way I had not done before.

Speaking to the friend with troubling relatives, I noted that some Christians are hypocritical of others, and that was wrong.  However, it is not fair for them to paint all Christians that way.  Furthermore, one must make their decision on faith based on their own relationship with God and not how others portray that relationship.  Then to the gay advocate, I simply said it is true that God’s word is clear against the homosexual lifestyle.  Furthermore I admitted it is something I struggle with because there are great people I know who are gay.  My goal as a Christian was never to judge.  It is to point them to God so their relationship can be determined.  Most of all, I am to love them with all of my heart as I would love God.  I could see that speaking from my heart had somewhat softened theirs because they knew what I was saying was not the hate filled overly critical views they had heard from Christians before.  It was a flawed and loving person who was helping them see the God they might not have agreed with but could understand.

Allowing God to shine through us is the best way to handle any conversation challenging our faith.  It is never easy when we are attacked at times in vicious and unacceptable ways.  However Hebrews 6:10 reminds us, “God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them.”  Trust that He will be with you in your most difficult battles.  How can you rely on God when questioned about your faith?  My prayer is that instead of fighting against God, we address our opposition fighting back with God.  Amen.

The Spirit Within Us

Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.  Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”  Matthew 28:18-20

This was a tough week personally as a member of my team unexpectedly passed away.  This was the first time I experienced the loss of someone who I saw nearly every day.  I asked for God’s wisdom as to why this person had to go when she did.  The thing that came to mind was that God sends angels among us, and many times, we do not know it until they have left us.  It became apparent that she had done her work among us because she had touched the lives of so many within our group that the spirit of her life was ingrained in us already.  It reminded me of the time when Jesus had spent all of His time with the disciples, and although He had conquered death, His spirit through the disciples would allow for the Gospel to spread throughout the world.

We should aspire to touch as many lives as possible displaying the spirit of Christ within us.  Today’s verses refer to the great responsibility we have as Christians (aka The Great Commission).  However, I want to focus on the moment.  The disciples had just witnessed the greatest miracle of all, the resurrection of Christ, and they anxiously waited for their next command from Him.  Jesus did not take the moment to celebrate with them or boast of His prediction coming true.  He simply stated His role as authority figure and for them to carry on His work until time for His return.  He laid the foundation for the early church, and once the message had gotten to others, the building of the church had begun.

We have greater influence on the spreading of the Gospel than we realize.  My friend’s life was filled with moments where she reached out to others and inspired them to live better.  More importantly, a bit of her spirit lives in each team member because above all, she was a child of God, and the team both responded to and loved her because of it.  Will your life to inspire others to become followers of Christ?  How can you better influence those near you through Christ?  My prayer is that we live our lives each day exemplifying the spirit of Christ within us.  Amen.

Speaking to the Enemy

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’  But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also.  And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.”  Matthew 5:38-42

I had someone in my life that one might call an 'enemy.'  As in most cases, this person is someone who you befriend and do all you can to help them.  Then at some point, they do something that is not at all like a friend.  Being honest, there are times it still bothers me. To  give so much only to have them tear you down behind your back is disheartening.  There has never been an opportunity for me to say anything to them since finding out this was happening, but if it does, what would I say?  More importantly, what should I say?

God’s gift of grace is a shining example of how we are to give grace to others.  When I read these verses as a young child, I took it to mean to avoid fighting when possible.  Today, I realize that was a narrow view of them.  Jesus’ point here is for us to be bigger than the transgressions against us.  It is about showing the face of God to one who may have never seen what true grace is. Thus when the pain seems unbearable or anger is greater than we can handle, Jesus encourages us through His teachings that we can indeed be above all of it.

Jesus always speaks the truth!  When the moment of conflict comes and every fiber in us says to react with either anger or vengeance, focus on Jesus for guidance.  Not only will He give you peace but He will also give you the victory in the end for as He teaches us in prayer:

And forgive us our debts,

as we also have forgiven our debtors (Matthew 6:12)

What emotional scar can you give to God today?  Who can you show grace toward as God has to you?  My prayer is that we can trust Jesus to take away pain and replace it with His love when speaking to the enemy.  Amen.

Telling Our Own Story

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 1 Peter 3:3-4
   
One of my colleagues has mastered the skill of telling their own story.  Here is how it works.  A situation will occur where a peer asks questions about a situation.  The reality is the peer just wants information to help solve a problem.  However, my colleague will tell their own story saying, “They are questioning my judgment!”  I have to laugh about it because I can clearly see what is happening, and then subtly inform my colleague of what the reality is.  The truth of the matter is we all fall prey to this.  We might see someone homeless, and ‘tell our own story’ that they must be lazy.  Or we see a child running wild in a store with their mom chasing them, and then we ‘tell our own story’ that they are not a very good parent.  It raises the question that as a Christian what is the true story about us and how does God see us?

God knows us inside and out, and focuses on the potential of what we can be.  There are numerous stories in the Bible that show how God uses people for His will to be done.  In many cases, these were not perfect people, and like us, they had sinned before God.  However, God saw the ‘inner self’ of those individuals, and used them where they were rewarded for making the choice to follow God.  We often gravitate to the ugly stuff of other people because it sounds more interesting (ex. We love to tear down our heroes after building them up).  However, if we were to use our God centered lens, we’d see the potential, beauty, and positive aspects of people.  That is at the center of a Christian’s heart.

Seeing things through God’s eyes always provides the right story.  The Pharisees had ‘told their own story’ that Jesus was blasphemous and disobeyed God’s laws.  The reality was Jesus is the Son of God who sacrificed His life so that we would not suffer for our sins.  When you begin to assess another’s situation or motive, remember to ask yourself like those bumper stickers would ask, “What would Jesus do?”  How can you see others as God sees them?  Do you tell your own story to justify wrongdoing before God?  My prayer is that we see the world as God’s sees it and not tell our own story. Amen.

Fighting for Control

Praise be to the Lord,
    for he has heard my cry for mercy.
The Lord is my strength and my shield;
    my heart trusts in him, and he helps me.
My heart leaps for joy,
    and with my song I praise him.  Psalm 28:6-7

The other day I got a scare.  Not the type of scare that you yourself have to face.  But rather, one that is faced by one closest to you.  In my case, it was my wife.  As I struggled to deal with the potential worse outcomes, tears came down my cheek.  Then, as my fears began to run rapid, I realized that I had no control over the situation.  But God did.  I just prayed for wisdom and strength.  You see, many people like myself do well going against the odds because we believe we are in control.  However, when it is someone dear to you, you realize just how little control you have.  It is then that you reach to God and ask for Him to do what we cannot; take over.

True strength comes from surrendering all to God.  While we all know our judgment day will come, we walk through life anticipating that it will come when the time is right.  We hold out hope that it will be on our terms.  However, none of us are promised tomorrow, and as I learned this week, even the day does not guarantee we will be able to lay down by our choosing.  Thus, we have two choices.  We can continue to believe that we have the power, or we can lay our trust in the one who I call ‘The Great Healer,’ to strengthen us.  While many believe the former, those who love God know ultimately that His will trumps all, and true strength lies in the living God through whom all things are possible.

God understands more than we can possibly imagine.  We ask for understanding as to why we go through what we do, and we realize that deep inside, we already know.  God’s strength is true power.  Who will you rely on when the odds are against you?  How will you trust in God’s strength above your own?  My prayer is that we learn to rely on His strength above all and stop fighting with God for control of things.  Amen.

True Friends

As iron sharpens iron,
    so one person sharpens another.  Proverbs 27:17

I’ve gotten to know a new friend lately.  The funny thing is that we did not come together over a bunch of things that we had in common although we did (ex. Both devout Christians).  The bond grew out of a dispute where there might have been a difference or disagreement.  However, it was from their handling of our differences that let me know some of the true nature of their character.  Many times we want people that agree with us as friends, and those who disagree are not.  What I have grown to believe is that really good friends do not always take your side.  In public, they stand with you, but at an appropriate time, they will openly disagree with you if you either have gone astray or done something that does not sound right.  They may even use your own examples to support their differing opinion.  Those are the people who I consider my best friends.

True friends are people God sends to protect us.  We all need people around us to support our life.  Some people will say things you want to hear just to be around you, and others will disagree just to spite you.  Godly friends want the best for you no matter what.  To ensure that, they will provide insight on different ways of looking at a situation.  To do so, they will sometimes disagree with us not to discourage but instead to encourage success of our walk of faith.  This is how indeed iron sharpens iron.

Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friend.” (John 15:13)  Jesus put such a high value on friendship realizing that with the right circle of friends, one will be steady on the righteous path.  This is not to say all of our friends should be Christian.  In fact, inviting a good person unaware of our awesome God into your Christian circle is a righteous thing to do.  So, can your friends be totally honest with you?  How can you be supportive of your friends and yet bold enough to share the hard truth?  My prayer is that we can take notes from Jesus and be true friends.